Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Guardian-ward relationship

~Pu Ngulminthang Langel

August 16 ni a Pa Ngulminthang in EBCC Delhi Biakinn ah "Guardian-Ward relationship" chih thulu zang a Delhi context a a gen ahi. Mundang ah le zattheih leh phattuampih ding lametna in hong ki suahkhia ahi.

Guardian - Ward relationship

Tuni tuailaite “fresher vaidawnna” programme a “Guardian-Ward relationship chih toh kisai houlim thei dia iom manin Pathian min iphat hi. Huan, hiai thu gendia hun honpia tualai heutute, banah kisakhawlh laia, awlmohna leh deihsakna toh phone leh SMS tungtawna hon hanthawn heutute tungah kipah thu ka gen hi. Kei, namai ua hong dingpa, singtang khua neuchik, cycle nasan leng atun louhna mun, government school, huaileng teacher khat-le-nih lel, et-kolna school apan khangkhia ka hi. Nek ding Antang, meh di Maipum leh meh houte, huan, lampai man dia zuak ding Aak kipuaka, kho lianzawa zil dia na kuankhia zou lel ahi. Huaiziakin, nou laisiam taktakte, khopi khat apana, khopi lian zaw, zil dinga hongpaite thuhilh dingin, kei mihinnna leh hihna ah, bangmah a omkei a, noute mai a dingtaak leng ka hi kei, chih ka hon pulak masa hi. Himahleh, Toupa ahoiha, ahon domsanga, Amah hauhsakna leh thupi dan kei leh ka Inkuanten ka tang mahmah uhi. Toupa phatin om hen. Jacob a upa lau a ataimangna apan kiknawn Jordan luipanga Pathian kiang a athumna “Toupa aw na sikha, na chitna leh muanhuaina khempeuh tangtaak leng ka hi kei a hiai Jordan lui ka kan lai in, ka chiangkhun kia lel ka neia, tu in bel mi pawl nih hial kahong phata uhi (Gen 32:10), achih bangin, huai Pathian ompihna mah tuh, tuni a noute mai a kahon dinpih ahizaw hi.
2. Delhi khopi a sinna sangzaw lunggulha hongkuan, Saptuam mi melthak(fresher) tamtak ka hon muhin, Pathian hauhsakna leh hoihnate ingahdan honphawksak a, kipah huai kasa mahmah hi. Neih-leh-lam, sum-le-pai banah lametna lianpi toh noute hon supporttu ding nu-le-pa muanhuai taktak nei na hihman un ka hon ngaisanga, kon kipahpih mahmah hi. Huan, noute apan, nu-le-pate, banah imi isate’ lametna lianpi nei uh ahi chih mangngilh kei ni hang. Neih leh lam, hauhsaknate ineih laiin, Solomon thugen, (Eklijiasti 5:13) Van ni nuai ah ahoihlou mahmah khat ka muh om hi; min aneihsa amah siatna dia azat, chih ngaihtuah thak ni hang. Huan, Victor E Frank in a laibu “The unheard cry for Meaning” chiha agelh “Ever more people today have the means to live but no meaning to live for” achihte bang hilou dingin pilvang ni hang. Huaiziakin, hauhsakna leh vualjawlna itante zangsiam leng. 1962 velin ei community apan mi nih lel khawng Delhi ah laizil in ana om ua, amaute anih tuakun, milohching leh thupi ana hita uhi. Tu chiangin, Delhi ah ei community kia leng mihing 2000 vel bang oma, lohchinna percent bang zah ahi dia? I population a khan dungjui in population quality lengakhan touh kiphamoha huan, dynamic leh productive zaw akhan theihna dingin, tunia eite mohpuak ahi. I ngaihdan tangpi(general perception) himhim bang leng quality chih tiltelna om nawnlou khat hiam, chih kivel thak tuak hi. Hiai toh kisai tangthu khat ka hon gen ding. Kumpipa bawngnawi petu in, kumpipa bawnghnawi(milk) aiangthou tawpa bawlin ape jela,. Ni khat bel huai bawng nawl ah tui ataksak kha zenzen hi. Kumpipa bawngnawi siang lou ahita chi a lungkham mahmah hi. Hiai thu nasem dangte kiang a agenin, amaute a enkhetu ding kisepin tuabawngnawipen, siang thouna hiam chih endik uhi. Bawngnawipen tui ahel beh uleh leng suiang thou lai ahi chiĆ¢€™n tui tampi helbeh in kumpipa adding leh amau a ding kidaih ding khop ahel chiang un, bawngnawi pen chiik(creamy) zou nawnlou in dau (diluted) gawp hi. Hiai bang dan in en leng hun tampi ah quality compromised ana bawl kha kha himai thei ihi.
3. Tuni a tuailai heutute a talking point dia honpiak uh, Guardian-ward relationship chih ahi. Guardian-ward relationship hoih leh chidamin sintute haksatna tampi a dawnzang dinga, huan, aphatuamlou ding eisunga kigensiatna leh phunna, banah chindan hoihloute apan hon kembit thei ding hi. Guardian-ward relation toh kisai legal rights leh legal complications chih hiamte gensawm ihi keia, agen dingin leng chitna kanei kei hi. Himahleh, Laisiangthou, Ruth laibu ah, Boaz (Guradian) a mohpuakna leh dinmun feltaka pawzou, huan, Elimelek, meithai mahni dinmun leh hihna kiphawk chian mahmah, huan Ruth a tup leh ngim theichiana tua bang jui dinga kuhkaltak leh thanuamtaka pangte tanchin imu hi. Amaute apan zillai la leng ichi hi. Elimelek leh Naomi nupa, gamsung kial leh haksatna ziaka, apiana Juda gama khua Bethlehem, pan Moab gam ah ava pem uhi. Huai Moab gam ah, atate a Moab mite zi in avanei ua, himahleh amaute’n azite uh asihsan ua, huai banah, Elimelek in leng Naomi asihsan hi. Hiai bang hunin, Bethlehem lam ah Naomi leh Ruth ahong kiknawn ua, atanau naite utoh relationship chidam leh lohching takmai nei in hong khosa uhi.
(a) Guardian kua hia ? Tu hun in tuh, fresherte’ leng local guardian nei chiat ta dingin ka hon lamen hi. Naomi in bel atapate leh apasal in sihsan nungin leng a pasal behte (Efratha) Boaz ava bulbawl pah hi (2:1-2). Huan, amaute nuta van neihte tatkhiak a, amaute etkawl ngai ahihlai un, Boaz in kei sanga tanau naizaw nang na hi azomin kei’ achih khat kiangah thil omdan ava kikuppih hi. Huan, huai tanau zaw in mohpuakna alak ngamlouh takin Boaz in, guardianship la in Ruth leng akiten pih ngal hi. (4:2). Hiai apan imuh theih ahih leh Laisiangthou mahin leng beh-le-phung, kitanau leh naizawte kihuai zawk deuh ding mah ahi chih ahon musak hi. Tulai khovel neih-leh-lam thil(materialism) a ki-et luatna in unau sanggam beh-le-phung bangleng honkhen thei mawk hi. Ki tanauna (relationship) chidam nei dingin tua bang hun ah pilvang ni. Anei zouzou/apau theithei va tanau bawl mawk pen hun tomchik thil adingin, navak huaisim bang mah leh chidam gige lou thei hi. Proverb ah unau hih khasiat toh kituahkik nawn tuh khopi lak sangin ahaksa zaw ana chi hial hi. Huaiziakin, Guardian-ward relationship chidam leh gahsuah ahih theihna dingin ahi ding dawlte mah hih khak poimoh hi.

(b) Guardian mohpuakna theihsiam(understanding responsibility): Responsibility ichih chiangin, “the ability to response” chihna ahi lel hi. Boaz in a behpazi (Naomi) leh Ruth( abehpa tapa’ asihsan azi)te chi moha Bethlehem lam apan ahong kiknawn lai un, beh-le-phung leng dongloua, huai lamlama va tai chi’n leng anuaksan/hehsan in angaihsak lou het kei hi. Huai naksangin, nutate nek ding buhte ana pia in, agamte uh ana tatkhiaksak hi (3; 15-16; 4: 6-7). Min tanau nai chia local guardian di khawnga hong zat chiang ua, thului khawng sutsut alah apoimohna huna apoimoh banga leng response thei tuan ngellou, guardian ihih leh ward toh relation chidamlou ding hi. Huan, guardian in provocation hilouin, motivation zangsiam leh wardte sangsiam zaw ding uhi. Provocation pen mi kuapeuhin leng hih theia, himahleh, motivation pen itna leh deihsakna tak tellou in haksa hi. Bang hiam, wardte deih hong batzohlouh hun un leng, kou thoh sangin, deihsakna toh “you are not in your best, I know you can do better” chi’n hasuan thei lehang relation chidamin, gahsuah thei zaw ding hi.

(c) Ward mohpuakna (primary responsibility) theihsiam a huaimah tup chinten ding: Ruth in api zui dinga thupukna abawl khit chiangin, api in nawkik dingin kunkun mah leh aman nangtoh kikhen dingin hon genpih dah mai in (1:15) achi lel hi. Daniel in kumpipa nek leh dawn jute a kihih thanghuai louh ding a lungsimin atum chintena (Daniel 1:8). Laizil dia mun gamlapi a haksat na leh senna tampi toh hongpai fresherte I tup leh mohpuakna(primary responsibility) haih kei ni hang. Tum chiltel mahni, chiin iki chial uhi. Hiai bang ah kuhkalna leh chihtakna wardte apan muh ding omlouh chiang Guardian adinga siam gige bang leng haksa ding hi. Ki panpih ngaidia gintaklouh thilte/hun khawnga diandian leh gensaksak ngai in om kei thei lehang relation chidam ding hi. Ruth lungsim putdan ah ama nopsakna ding leh enjoy mai theih ding, baihlam thilte (pasal naupang zaw) azong kei (3:9). Lai zil dia om hinapi ei utna leh anuam lamlam lel khawng delh a tai baihlam ahi.

(d) Mahni kitheih chian: Nehru in a laibu gelhna khat ah tuh discover yourself then you can discover the whole world ana chi hi. Naomi in amah hihna leh dinmun athei chian mahmaha, Bethlehem a akiknawn takin, miten hiai Naomi hilou hia, chia dot lai un, aman Naomi hon chi nawn kei unla, Mara hon chi zawta un (1:20) achi hial hi. Guardian apangkha te hin kuapeuh hita lehang, ei dinmun leh hihnate, ilaisim laia ina om dante khawng phawkloua, wardte bang perfect dia lamet gige mawka, tua bang ahihlouh chiang ua, nawn thuzak kei, na hong pawt kei chia mohsak gige penin relation chidam saklou ding hi. Huchimah bangin, ward inleng ahihna leh dinmun theisiamloua, omdan leh gamtat a pilvanglou, leh mohpuakna/guardiante thu dotlou, thulaklou leh limsakloua a om leh lohsam ding hi. (Jiribam Experience sharing).Huchimah bangin, wardte’n leng, I dinmun leh hihna theisiamin, kizangsiam lehang Guardiante’n pahtak iloh dinga, lohchinna leng ingah ding hi. Ruth in, adin mun phawkin, Beth lehem atun phet un, Naomi kiangah a lou ah vakuanin, hondeihsak kamuh peuhpeuh nungah buhsang kava zong ding aw, chii’n, api sawl ngai hetlou in akuan khepah mai hi ((2:2).

(e) Ward-Guardian kithuzak tuahna: Tulai khovel ah kithuzak tuahna dia thilzat theih mobile, net SMS leh adg.adg. tampi a omta a, hilehleng, khat leh khat kikal gap lian deuhdeuh akichi sek hi. Ikiang naichik a omte toh kithuzak sangin, miles tampia gamla omte toh bang ki thuzak zawk theihin om hi. Ruth in buhsang azonna lama, athil tuah leh theihte, akim sipsipin a pi Naomi ahilhjel hi (2:19;3:16). Hun tenga om khawm gige lou uh ahihmanin, ward in a guardian thu-zak in a progress leh development omte hilh jel leh relation chidam tuan mahmah ding hi. Bang hiam Hostel seat muhna/leave regularized nading (hiai leng asia ichi kei) lela, guardian om lam phawkl el ihihleh I relation chidam lou ding hi. Huchimah bangin, guardiante bangin leng, wardte taksap leh poimoh bang ahia? Bang chi ki manage jel ahia chih bang kan dia koih ngeilou pi, a “guardian ka vele” chih lel mawkin ki tanauna hih sethei ahi chih phawk kulmoh hi. Boaz in, Ruth leh Elimelekte poimoh, nekding guan in. A neihleh lamte uh apoimoh bangun tatkhiaksak lai hi. Huan, ki thuzaktuahna in misunderstanding om thei tampi apan hon vengbit thei ahi chih mangngilh kei ni. Pilvang ni hang.

(f) Thumanna tuh lohchinna ahi: Ruth in api Naomi thumanga a thil hih leh nasepte etin utthu a hih zoh maimai ding abang kei hi. Hiai in Ruth chihtakna leh ginomna, kuhkalna ataklang mahmah hi. Hiai thuman leh kuhkalna mah tuh amau-gel kal chidamtaka zomtu ahi.

(g) Atawpna penin, Boaz in Ruth a kitenpiha, tapa hon neihtak un, tualai in midangte’n, Naomi kiangah, “tangtawn Toupa phatin om hen, nang honhilh ding leh, na tek na vuai nunga hon vakpa hi dingin, nang hon itnu leh nanga dinga tapa 7 sanga hoihzaw nu (Ruth) in amah kitenpih hi ven” (4:15-17) achita uhi. Hiai mah tuh, inu-leh-pate, guardian leh kuapeuh in zillaite apan ilam-et uh ahi chih phawk gige ni hang. Boaz leh Ruth nu-pa kal apan tapa piang tuh Obed ahia, Obed tuh Jese pa ahia, Jese lah David pa ahia, Jesu hongpian khanggui ahita hi. A thupi ngei.

Pathian in, guardian-ward relation chidam neia, “home away from home” a khosa kawma, siamna sang zaw leh lohchinna hoihpen tang dingin, hon vualjawl chiat ta hen aw!

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